Long story short: I didn't get the call.
It would have been nice to get to know the guy.
But at the same time it was a relief. He lives in another state. The whole thing was set-up, which is super nice and cute, but at the same time it's just that: a set-up. Like fabricated. My heart is just that it wouldn't be that way. Simple as that: set-ups for me are just not for me. Ha ha if that makes sense.
The Lord is my matchmaker. And I've heard some say that to say that of the Lord is untrue, "God is no matchmaker!" But if He's my Father, my God, He must surely care who I will marry. And yes, the reason I would date anyone is to marry them :) I want Him to guide my life including my relationships.
So in everything the Lord is sovereign and His timing is impeccable :)
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Pleased to meet you.
Much-needed info: a while ago I had prayed to the Lord to not allow any guy into my life (for a romantic relationship) until after I graduated college... that time is in less than a month. The Lord is a gentleman (which means He might actually wait until after I graduate to allow someone into my life) but His plans are also greater than mine (which means there might not be someone anytime soon because the Lord has other things planned).
I met a guy today.
Yeah I've met a million and one. But today was a set-up.
A "We-hope-you-guys-can-get-to-know-each-other-better" set-up.
Yeah... one of those.
I wasn't nervous. Weird.
And it wasn't awkward at all. [Hint: sarcasm]
We met and yes, like everyone had said, he was handsome. Ok, got that much.
Pretty sweet, the 5 minutes (or less) we chatted.
Almost went to lunch with him and the family (sounds pretty serious) but I had already planned other engagements for lunch so I couldn't (I didn't do that on purpose).
I'm writing like it was all a drag... but it wasn't :)
It was cute I guess. People were SO obvious in trying to set us up that we both found ourselves on common ground with the awkwardness of it all so we understood each other that much.
His parents (who did the whole set-up) are supposed to give me a call to go eat together before he flies out Tuesday. Oh yeah he lives in Cali.
Will they call?
We shall see... ;)
P.S. either way it's ok (call or no call). Really. But I'll be updating :).
Peace
I met a guy today.
Yeah I've met a million and one. But today was a set-up.
A "We-hope-you-guys-can-get-to-know-each-other-better" set-up.
Yeah... one of those.
I wasn't nervous. Weird.
And it wasn't awkward at all. [Hint: sarcasm]
We met and yes, like everyone had said, he was handsome. Ok, got that much.
Pretty sweet, the 5 minutes (or less) we chatted.
Almost went to lunch with him and the family (sounds pretty serious) but I had already planned other engagements for lunch so I couldn't (I didn't do that on purpose).
I'm writing like it was all a drag... but it wasn't :)
It was cute I guess. People were SO obvious in trying to set us up that we both found ourselves on common ground with the awkwardness of it all so we understood each other that much.
His parents (who did the whole set-up) are supposed to give me a call to go eat together before he flies out Tuesday. Oh yeah he lives in Cali.
Will they call?
We shall see... ;)
P.S. either way it's ok (call or no call). Really. But I'll be updating :).
Peace
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